When nothing can be done, his son smashed home things, and even the bricks on the floor, he would move away to play; a waste battery, a clock, he will open and smashed. Ask him why so, he said to see if there is magnet. What to do with him, he did not do, do not let him do these things, he was beaten to fight.
Child is so spent childhood, in the eyes of adults tattered, worthless things in the eyes of the child may be a baby, are full of fun. If we go take a look at a child's drawer, we may find that the little doll with an arm and the missing glass ball may have a wonderful story behind everything.
Some people may still remember that in "Hand" there is such a scene: actor Zhong Rui to move when the son of a bag of toys should be thrown away as rubbish, son immediately like a small boxer him è kicked. This shot is a very real deal.
The reason why children are so, because the world is full of mystery for them, and life may have been for adults? There is no secret at all. We should give this child the right to break the "secret" of life.
The second is the rapidly changing social environment. The explosion of information and the richness of material life are totally different from those experienced by parents. Therefore, children born now face this colorful world. The information received by children's brains Much more before, so asking kids to have the same perspective as adults is unrealistic.
The third is that some parental ideas are cured, and the realm of children increases as they grow older. This change and the immutability of parents themselves are a contradiction.
Parents educating their children from their own perspective shows two very typical trends at different stages of their child's development. First, children are required by the standards of adults. Second, when children enter adolescence and always want to break away from their parents' wings, they are treated with young children. The result is that they ignore the children's natural growth and neglect their different growth Psychological needs of the stage.
The face of children, parents feel the urgency of competition, the rapid development of the era left them a profound experience, some of them washed away in the waves, and some people are eliminated, others are struggling, Prepared heart pressure of the heavy. Although parents experience different lives, the demands on children are almost the same. To learn something, have a few ways to earn a living, we have this is the case, to you at that time can only be more intense. This worry about the future of children makes them pay close attention to every time to arrange their children's every day.